30 Days of Blogging Honesty (+1 Dare) – Day 10

“The last time I snooped into something I wasn’t supposed to (like a medicine cabinet in a friend’s bathroom), I found…”

It’s funny, you think I would’ve learned how to save my work – but nope.  So if any of you stopped by earlier and found yet another blank post, just know me and WordPress have not been friends as of late haha.

 I don’t typically like to snoop, I feel guilty doing so.  Usually the extent of it goes to me snooping through Ryan’s book shelf, but that’s wide open for the world to see, so I don’t count it.  If I’m ever going through someone’s bathroom cabinet, nine times out of ten I’m either looking for floss or toilet paper.  I’ve never been one to even touch my boyfriend’s cell phone, and we never go on the computer when we hang out so I’m never tempted to explore his email (not that I would).  So I’m not a snooping person.

However, I do remember one time when I was dating my ex in college, I was on his computer while he was having a shower.  I clicked open a folder for whatever reason, and I found his porn video stash.  I’m not one of those girls who gets angry that her boyfriend watches porn, I just laughed because apparently he had a type – Asian porn and anime porn.  He felt really embarrassed and so did I because I didn’t want him to think I was angry or anything.

I know my current boyfriend has a DVD stash, and though I’m a little curious to see what he watches, I’m not going to go looking – sometimes it better just not knowing.

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22 thoughts on “30 Days of Blogging Honesty (+1 Dare) – Day 10

  1. my husband’s all proud of his stash. It doesn’t bother me, but I would prefer that I didn’t know his “type”

  2. lol
    Regarding your BF… Maybe you two could watch it together… We watch porn together sometimes. I hope this is not TMI. 🙂

    • Precisely. Plus, with my current boyfriend, I wouldn’t want him going through my email, reading my journal, checking my messages – so I would never consider doing that to him.

    • I think it’s because deep down we go looking for that stuff. I’ve found other stuff by accident, but personal stuff like a friend’s medication or something.

    • They sometimes do, but i have a lot of my 30 day posts written on a word document and then i cut and paste, so i’m only on the page for a short amount of time. Which is why it only took me a couple of minutes after I woke up to fix my post.

      I only have self-restraint because I was in a very untrusting relationship – he would read my personal private journal (which I didnt keep out), so I would have to basically write that things were ok so he wouldn’t get mad at me. He’d check my email, he’d probe my friends about me. In turn I started not to trust him. So now I just try to have trust, until I’ve been given reason not to. If that relationship never happened, I may be a little more inclined to check his phone or something lol.

      • Wow, that sounds so difficult >< Thankfully, the people I've dated so far were never like that. My current beau *not boyfriend…yet* is older and lives in another state so I don't see us being in each other's face lol. I'm so sorry you went through all that though =/

      • damn, that relationship sounds awful! glad your out of there! i don’t snoop around my man’s stuff either. it’s because i do trust him but largely, it is because i’m lazy. 😆

        • Haha well at least that works too. Usually if I uncover anything I’m not supposed to see, it’s by accident, I would never want to breach a friend’s trust.

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